I feel like I don’t have any say over what I want for the reception…everyone keeps making decisions before I get a say. For instance, my fiance and his family decided that they want the food to be gourmet popcorn and then he texts me and says hey we are talking about gourmet popcorn and we are doing it. Then, him and his family are coming back from Disneyland and his family bought a minie and mickie mouse wedding topper and I don’t even want that! So long classy wedding…and all I wanted was a topper that was blue or yellow with a G…